As a 2 nd generation survivor, perhaps this is a reason for my existence. I created a short film called Survivor: These are my love letters to him. I understand now; that I will never truly comprehend what happened to my family but my continued sojourns to Poland and Germany, help me to see answers to my questions, in person. Hannah Kozak , Memory.
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In reading Scott's vulnerable, and intimate account, which I zipped through in one day, it was like I had found a friend who came alongside me to comfort and empathize and encourage me forward in my journey of healing. His intent is not to let us stay stuck in the pain of the past but to make peace with it and create a new legacy.
Some might think it's depressing to dig into the past but I've found, like Scott, that it's the only way to a more free and healthy future. Nov 06, Ken Ndirangu rated it it was ok. I read this book because I read other books by Scott, but this memoir is a one sided book from someone who seems to expect too much from a not very good father. He needs to accept the fact that his father cannot change the past. Forgive him even if he doesn't ask for forgiveness and accept the fact that he has his own life to live.
Let him make his own choices however unpopular and live and learn in his own way. I think he feels entitled to a mythical father, yet actually most people would kill t I read this book because I read other books by Scott, but this memoir is a one sided book from someone who seems to expect too much from a not very good father. I think he feels entitled to a mythical father, yet actually most people would kill to have a father like the one he had.
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Especially a father who provides the material things that make it possible to excel in life and go beyond the subsistence they have provided. I find Scott too judgmental and self righteous. Oct 19, Robert Fayle rated it really liked it. Everyone should read this book. It will make you think about your family relationships and your role. Mar 06, Ravi Gangadat rated it it was amazing. The title of the book is a metaphor for him and his relationship with his dad; Scott's dad was always somewhere else while Scott searched for an ideal father.
The purpose of the book is to explain the dysfunctions of his family to his estranged nieces and nephews so they don't make the same mistakes he made. I believe Scott accomplished his goal and took us along for the ride. I enjoyed reading this bo The "Ghost of My Father" by Scott Berkun should be added at the top of everyone's reading list. I enjoyed reading this book because I can relate to what Scott has gone through in his life.
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He shared perspectives that I think would help anyone better understand and cope with relationship issues. One of the things that I've learned about successful relationships is it takes emotional maturity to repair an argument quickly.
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Scott summed it up nicely by stating; "People who care about each other should come back the next day to sort out what happened the day before. This is a book that resonated with me and I can't wait to read it again. I received this book from Scott Berkun as part of my contribution to the Kickstarter project for this book. But, after reading the book, I purchased additional copies for family and friends Oct 21, George Wenzel rated it it was amazing. A haunting tale of the realities of fatherhood, the pains of betrayal, and the complexity of family.
Like Scott Berkun's previous books, this is one to make you think. Unlike previous works by Berkun, though, this one is deeply personal. It tells the story of his family, from his early memories of growing up in NYC to his final interactions with his father. As a mostly well-adjusted product of a dysfunctional family and a father myself, this book left me thinking about my role as patriarch and A haunting tale of the realities of fatherhood, the pains of betrayal, and the complexity of family. As a mostly well-adjusted product of a dysfunctional family and a father myself, this book left me thinking about my role as patriarch and the daily impact I have on the lives of my children.
This is a worthwhile read no matter your family dynamic. Berkun is a master with words, and explores themes of memory, family, loyalty, and maturity like no other. Nov 18, Ian Stewart rated it it was amazing. This was tough to read at times but pretty incredible.
Emotionally tough that is. I started and finished it in one evening. I think I'm most impressed with Berkun's honesty throughout. Both with himself and his family. I'll be recommending this one to friends for a long time. I deeply appreciate the courage to write this book.
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It's very intimate, emotional but also one-sided and kind of naive. I'm not a psychologist nor specialist in family relations, but I'm also in "complicated" relation with my father and I already know that some attempts to improve things actually make them worse. But this doesn't mean that this book is bad.
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It's a breathtaking confession. It reveals true story at least from one point of view with twists and details, that ar I deeply appreciate the courage to write this book. It reveals true story at least from one point of view with twists and details, that are hardly to find in any novels. There are many opportunities to think about relations and family values.
I would add more stars for more retrospects and interviews with other family members.
It was sad and depressing—a hard read. That said, I take a few things away from the book. One, be open and honest and present for those you care about. Two, I owe it to my family to never create such a situation for any of them. Jul 17, Melissa rated it liked it. It was a fast read, but not completely what I expected.
Sep 24, Les Reynolds rated it really liked it. Jan 18, Jenny rated it it was amazing. I have not read one book so fluently and being totally engrossed in it for so long. It is not until now that I come to realize that how the flow of the writer can echo with that of the reader, and how the journey of some stranger who struggles to find the lost identity can accord with mine own. I myself have a very bad childhood, being imbued with lack of care and understanding from father and parental relationship who is constantly in jeopardy and when I have grown up, I have been trying to see I have not read one book so fluently and being totally engrossed in it for so long.
I myself have a very bad childhood, being imbued with lack of care and understanding from father and parental relationship who is constantly in jeopardy and when I have grown up, I have been trying to seek a reasonable way to balance the relationship by talking and communication. I know that my father can never understand my behaviors and he has lost the capability of love.
I just do not follow his trail once again. However, I am finding it increasing hard for me to establish connections with people around me as I grow older.
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It's clear that she's just trying to paint a clear picture of her curmudgeonly father. But Book Two, which chronicles Robin's time in a nursing home, is much stronger. Here, Robin's unique combination of eccentricity and strength speaks for itself, especially when he's quietly holding hands with his new girlfriend, Jane. Charnas's story is bound to be a guidebook and an inspiration for anyone caring for aging parents. Blurbs from Tony Hillerman and Peter Straub could make this popular among baby boomers. View Full Version of PW.