Apr 28, Brandy rated it it was ok. I don't want to say that I didn't like the book, but I have very few good things to say about it. Yes, it captured my interest and I read it quickly. I wasn't ever bored and anxiously waited to see how it ended. There were so many things that I didn't like though.
I don't like books that are written for YA that try to "capture" what it is really like in high school. I don't want my kids reading those kind of books. Yes, this may be real life for some, but I hope it isn't real life for my kids. I want my kids to be hanging out with their friends from church, not having sex on the weekends. It seems like authors that try to write like this write about the minority of high school kids.
They are wanting the student body to understand that NOT everyone is doing it, so it bugs me when teen literature makes it seem like everyone does meaning alcohol, sex, etc. I understand from a friends review that the author was compelled to write this story after working with battered women and children. I can see that she is trying to get the message out there that says you are in control of your own actions and feelings. You need to own up to them and take responsiblity. I honestly don't see how this book is going to create change in young adults.
The ending was very predictable. I knew as soon as the book started that he would have an ah-ha moment and suddenly be better or at least be on the road to better at the end. It seemed to "wrapped in a pretty package" to me and I think that high schoolers will see right through it. When I have felt the most compelled to change in my life, it has always been situations weather listening to someone or even reading something that the spirit was there. I don't think I ever once felt the spirit while reading this.
I think there are more uplifting books on the market to get teens to understand the point the author was trying to make. When I was teaching in Young Womens, a talk I came across from Susan Tanner said that we don't encourage our youth to obey the standards by showing them all the ways they could disobey.
Meaning, we don't show them multiple examples of immodest clothing to get the point across to wear something modest. I feel that same way with this book, don't show us violence and anger to get us to not do it, or to get us to change our ways. I don't think the book focused enough on the 'message'.
In fact, I didn't really even feel the message of the book until I read my friends review. Until then, I felt like this book was about a jerk who ended up realizing his errors and wanting to change. The problem is that when he wanted to change, the book was over. There was no time spent on the change. So this leaves readers who don't know how to change empty and just like every person who is caught in the abusive cycle The kid in this book got lucky that he was sentenced to take this class. Not many people in real life are going to voluntarily take those type of classes.
So, to end, this book was fine for just reading. But to create change like I suspect the author was trying to do, I think it fails miserably. So folks, that is my initial gut reaction of this book. I am going to sleep on it, and I may change my mind tomorrow!! View all 21 comments. Jun 27, Kerry Cerra rated it it was amazing Shelves: In this extraordinary novel by Alex Flinn, we experience a violent teen relationship from the point of view of the boy who beats his girlfriend.
Required reading for many schools, Alex Flinn does an amazing job of portraying Nick in a way in which the reader can almost feel sorry for him. I found myself rooting for him to get help and stick with his recovery program. Apr 09, Thomas rated it it was amazing Shelves: However, the guys in his anger management class and his ex-girlfriend Caitlin know differently. They know that Nick is actually an abusive person who has lived under the poor influence of his father.
This book details his struggle to find himself in the mask of anger that has been controlling him for awhile now. I honestly did NOT want to li "Breathing Underwater" is about sixteen year old Nick Andreas who leads a double life, most of the time he is a charming, straight-A earning football player. I honestly did NOT want to like this book. It seemed to be the type of book that I would naturally not like, even though I just love Alex Flinn's works.
As I began the novel I couldn't stop myself from flipping the pages to find out what exactly Nick did and if he manages to control himself or not. Some people complain about happy endings, but this book's ending was bitter sweet, not completely happy. Flinn really has a gift in making the reader just feel the emotions of the main character, like it or not. I would definetly recommend this book to every teen who isn't aware of situations like the one presented in this book. A fast simple read that was gripping, shocking and honest.
Was this really challenged to be banned from a school? This is exactly the type of book that teen girls should be reading Even though the entire book is from the abusers POV and Flinn gave us hope for his character by the end, she made her girl SMART and able to do the right thing once the da A fast simple read that was gripping, shocking and honest. Even though the entire book is from the abusers POV and Flinn gave us hope for his character by the end, she made her girl SMART and able to do the right thing once the danger became to much.
Its for sure a teachable book that examines the characteristics in a domestic abuser and the signs to know when to break off the relationship. Apr 25, Annette rated it liked it Recommends it for: It makes me sad that a book about teenage violence has become required reading for all freshman at North High, where my kids attend. On the other hand, I'm glad that someone took the time to write a book about such a serious and much needed topic.
I'm sure that the author wrote it thinking that if she could make a difference in even one person's life it would be well worth it. I feel that if the reading of this book is accompanied with a great deal of classroom discussion it could prove to be v It makes me sad that a book about teenage violence has become required reading for all freshman at North High, where my kids attend. I feel that if the reading of this book is accompanied with a great deal of classroom discussion it could prove to be very helpful to kids who are prone to violence or kids who are victims of violence. This is not your typical book about abuse because it's from the abuser's point of view.
It takes you on a journey inside the mind of Nick Andreas a 16 year old, who grows up in an upper-class neighborhood in Miami FL. Once you get to know him you start to feel sorry for him because of his relationship with his father and his inability to recognize the seriousness of his situation. Because he refuses to see the obvious that he needs professional help he continues to make bad choices.
Only when his life completely spins out of control does he finally have an "aha" moment and he starts to make the changes necessary to improve his life. What impresses me the most about this book is how the author stresses the importance of accepting responsibility for your own actions. The author does capture the lifestyle of the average American teen which may be offensive to some, it's actually quite offensive to me personally, however, I understand that writers who write for YA's feel the need to portray high schoolers as realistically as possible. Alex Flinn may have gone a little too far with this though, the boys do use really crude language this is what makes it a 3 star rather than a 4 or 5 star Although, as my daughter reminded me if she were to make it truly realistic she would have to add a lot more 4-letter words.
Obviously, the book was written especially for today's teens and therefore is much more appealing to that age group and less appealing to adults. Interestingly, the author, Alex Flinn interned with the Miami-Dade State Attorney's Office, while in law school trying several domestic violence cases. It was this experience, along with serving as a volunteer and mentor at the Inn Transition facility for battered women and their children that led her to write this book.
Incidentally, Alex Flinn recently came to visit some of the Com. Arts classes here at North High School. She came and visited my daughter's Creative Writing Class.
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View all 7 comments. Sep 06, Ashley rated it liked it. Sadly, this book may be a work of fiction but in many ways it isn't. I know people in similar situations or even someone like Nick. It's a hard cycle to break and there's only two routes that it could end up at. I think this book could be very helpful for ce Sadly, this book may be a work of fiction but in many ways it isn't.
I think this book could be very helpful for certain people and it's a good read for anyone who wants to get in the mind of someone like this and have a little understanding of their world. Sometimes they are the victim. Jan 12, Robyn rated it really liked it. This book made me think and feel so much.
It could've been improved storywise and characterwise but it gets its message across really well, and the main concept of the story is portrayed perfectly. It made you feel sad for all types of characters, while being so frustrated at them at the same time. This made me love this book.
Sep 20, Cassi Davila rated it it was amazing Shelves: I believe he really loved Caitlin, and that he changed and was willing to love again.
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But I do believe Caitlin had every right to make the decision to not trust him again. She was hurt and Nick did everything in his power to make her feel inferior to him. That makes me furious as a young woman reading this book, but by the end of the book i feel sympathetic towards him because he realized what he did.
It wasn't his fault that he grew up to be like that, it was his father's. And the fact that he did not have a mother to teach him how to treat a woman. He had no right to hit a woman.
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But his backround does make you understand that you shouldn't judge before you know the whole story. He knew that no matter how hard he tried, he would never get Caitlin back. And he never should. Nick was selfish in the beginning, and thought that just a slap was okay. He changed completely after taking the class, and the death of his friend Leo, and realized that life is too short and should be taken in, not wasted.
Feb 07, Ashley rated it really liked it Shelves: This book makes me a little sick to my stomach. It hurts a lot. It's the story of an abusive relationship, but rather than the voice of the girl, the victim, we are in the head of the boyfriend, the abuser. And I surprisingly found myself I felt for him, wished he'd open his eyes to things, realize how hurtful and cruel he was. He also demonstrated some stellar character growth.
Not enough that I think Caitlin should ever go back to Wow. He grew and matured a lot and he began to take responsibility for his actions, to understand where he went wrong and that what he was doing WAS wrong. I just reread this one on audio, and wow. Its hard to listen to. It hurts, it angers me, it moved me, and I wish more people knew of this book. I've read several other books by this author, and this one is far and away, her best in my opinion. Jak moc jsem se spletla.
Feb 16, Loz Cook rated it liked it Recommended to Loz by: This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers. To view it, click here. Starting to read this book I had a totally different view of what it was going to be about and i'm glad to say that it made me think very differently by the time it was finished.
I thought this book was great. It is so innovative and interesting to me. This book drew me in very quickly and I really enjoyed the styles involved and each one had me anxious to get to the next part where that style would be continued. I thought it was very well done how Flinn managed to have me invest myself in the Starting to read this book I had a totally different view of what it was going to be about and i'm glad to say that it made me think very differently by the time it was finished.
I thought it was very well done how Flinn managed to have me invest myself in the reading and by the end I was really feeling for Nick.
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I found it really interesting how Nick was shown the error of his ways by writing it down. I never wrote a journal, but recently I have been urged to try my hand at creative non-fiction.
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My writings have taken on a very personal vein and have been so cathartic to me. Mar 28, Audrey Henning rated it really liked it Shelves: I really enjoyed this book, but it was quite difficult to read. It's about an abusive relationship and it's told from the abuser's point of view. It was a book I can relate too, mainly because I was in Caitlin's position. I could feel her pain all those times that she was verbally assaulted and abused.
This book was a quick read, but I did have to take a break and put it down for a few minutes at I really enjoyed this book, but it was quite difficult to read. This book was a quick read, but I did have to take a break and put it down for a few minutes at some points because it does get pretty intense and it brought back a lot of unpleasant memories for me. This book is written mostly through Nick's journal entries. Out of all the protagonists I've read about, he is probably one of the most detestable. Mar 17, Kelli rated it it was amazing. This book explores a relationship that slips and slides between all that is harmful and also that is now non-existent- the logical consequences of Nick's wicked and controlling temper.
Great story about finding yourself. The book shares how a temper out of control demands self-awareness as results burn down around Nick as he missed Caitlyn. This is a book for all girls who have overbearing boyfriends or the potential to date someone with "trouble" and bad boy written on them. I loved watching th This book explores a relationship that slips and slides between all that is harmful and also that is now non-existent- the logical consequences of Nick's wicked and controlling temper.
I loved watching the main character Nick transform and learn the source of his fire. Mar 11, Natrat rated it it was amazing Shelves: When you start reading this book you will feel bad for Nick, but when he writes in his journal what he has done, bye bye sympathy. This book is an emotional roller coaster for all you romance lovers. But you also will feel bad for Nick when you realize his dad is much to blame for his actions. This is my favorite book I have read so far in my years, and one of the weirdess point of view, A GUY.
This book is also very good for the ladys who want to find out how guys think, I woudlnt have know how When you start reading this book you will feel bad for Nick, but when he writes in his journal what he has done, bye bye sympathy. This book is also very good for the ladys who want to find out how guys think, I woudlnt have know how they thought after this book. Apr 21, Onlyvickyv rated it it was amazing. This was an exquisite book. I read it in one day. Reading a book from the point of view of an abusive guy is not something I ever thought I would do.
Because there's no justification for inflicting pain voluntarily over a person, however much you may have suffered. That's not what this book is about. It is not a justification. To his thoughts, why he does what he does. And I have to say, I never really thought of it b 3. And I have to say, I never really thought of it before.
It makes me uncomfortable, but that's a good thing, right? The only place where this book failed was it felt a little too impersonal. It's like reading a powerful monologue that doesn't touch you, but shocks you. May 15, Gabriel rated it really liked it. Breathing Underwater by Alex Finn is about a sixteen year old boy named Nicholas, also known as Nick.
His ex-girlfriend, Caitlin, put a restraining on him for hitting her while they were dating. Nick is in a battle now. It shows his feelings, his stories, and his struggles. We would probably think he is an Breathing Underwater by Alex Finn is about a sixteen year old boy named Nicholas, also known as Nick. We would probably think he is an evil psychopath.
I would recommend this book it makes readers want to keep reading and find out how the next event happens. Mar 16, Livi rated it really liked it.
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I really enjoyed reading this book, it was both intriguing and interesting. I may read it again because I want to know every detail of this book. I was so excited for the ending the whole time, because I wanted to see what happened to the couple. It was a little confusing to read because he was telling a story of his past, but also talking in present form. I got confused at times weather he was talking about. I would recommend this book, it really gets to your heart, you are constantly wondering I really enjoyed reading this book, it was both intriguing and interesting.
I would recommend this book, it really gets to your heart, you are constantly wondering what might happen next, and the ending kind of surprises you. I think this is a great book for someone my age, it introduces to them relationships, reality, and highs school. A Noblebright Fantasy Anthology. Discover your new favorite authors in these noblebright fantasy tales of heroism, love, and sacrifice. Books Fairy Queens Box Set. Never bargain with the fae. Never fall for the enemy. Ilyenna is about to break both. Gratitude Journal For Teens: When the search for a missing teenager leads to a hunt for a vicious serial killer, private eyes Jake and Annie Lincoln must solve a deadly puzzle.
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There was a problem filtering reviews right now. Please try again later. Nick has been summoned to a courtroom Sure, he hit his girlfriend, but it was just one slap, one measly little slap and suddenly, his girlfriend, Caitlin, blows everything out of proportion by acquiring a restraining order against him. Why would she do that? After all, he said he was sorry.
So why couldn't she let it go and move on like all the other times he's won her back? The answer is quite simple. Nick is not telling the whole story. Sixteen year old Nick thinks that everyone is overreacting. They don't know the whole story between him and Caitlin. According to him, what went on between them wasn't anyone's business, including that counselor and the room of freaks he's been told to sit with everyday of the week. But it is through these counseling sessions where he tries to become invisible, and the journal in which he's required to write, that Nick finally reveals himself.
It's not often that an author tells a story like this from the male's perspective. I'm quite sure there are plenty of books like this, maybe even written better, however. This was my first and I could definitely relate to it.
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Not to say I felt sorry for the character; I just empathized with him. Everyone has their secrets and, sooner or later, the secrets you keep wound up exploding in your face. Teenage love is a strange thing but, when it's all you want, it can be very scary. Nice, quick read; I did it in one sitting.
If you're the squeamish type, or the type that gets mad when a book doesn't go the way you want it to, then this is not the book for you. If you're everyone else, give it a try. One person found this helpful 2 people found this helpful. This is the one book that both high school boys and girls will read. Have challenged reluctant readers to read 15 pages--and if they wanted to stop, I would give them credit for a book. Her other books are more story-driven, but this one is both character and story driven.
Alex Flinn takes you on a roller coaster in this coming of age tale of a boy with a lot of pent up frustration. The story takes you all over the Keys, but it takes place prominently at Key Biscayne High School and the anger management class. The story starts off with Nick in court getting a restraining order put on him by his ex-girlfriend Caitlin. He is sentenced to take a class on anger management and write his version of the story in a journal every day.
Nick encounters many obstacles along the way. One of which is trying to get Caitlin back because he still loves her. Another is dealing with his best friend Tom deserting him. He also has to deal with the anger management classes including the teacher, his peers and himself. All of these things he must deal with while constantly living in fear and loathing of his abusive, uncaring, disapproving father.
Along the way Nick's perspective is changed. Through the use of the journal to observe exactly how he is, and interacting and observing with his peers both from school and anger management classes, Nick is finally able to see where he has gone wrong and how he can make things right. This book is truly one to remember and I would strongly recommend it to anyone, but I would especially suggest it to young guys who feel overwhelmed by their lives, anyone with anger issues, and those who struggle to cope with everyday life.
This book is not for the weak hearted as some very controversial subjects are addressed in the novel. I look forward to reading more books from this author and more books like "Breathing Underwater". One person found this helpful. Kindle Edition Verified Purchase. I read this book because my team of English teachers are responsible for teaching a teen dating violence curriculum to our high school students.
As part of a modified curriculum, we utilized a passage from this book to demonstrate the cycle of violence. I am one of those teachers who feels that I must read everything I present to my class prior to its presentation, and this was no diffierent. I found that once I started reading it, I couldn't put it down. I was angry with Nick, but at the same time, I understood the things he went through. I was annoyed with Caitlin I applauded when she did, but at the same time, I felt Nick's pain. There are some graphic scenes in here told through Nick's journal of memories , but the book is well written.
I recommend it highly. I liked how this book took me in and played with my emotions. It was easy to put myself in a variety of roles. Plus, a good reminder and awareness message for all perspectives. There are lots of books written about dating violence but this book is very important and note worthy because it is from the point of view of the abusive boyfriend. This shows us the other side of the abuse and what was going through his mind. I have been in an abusive relationship before and this book was helpful. I would also recommend all young women to read this book.
Quick and easy read. Perfect for mandatory summer reading requirements.
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In first read the book back in high school with my class and I love it to death reading in my 20s I feel much different I really enjoyed it and it can be a bit graphic. I think this is a great read it handles abuse and bullying well.